I don't want to toot my own horn- but I am going to do it...TOOT! TOOT!
Parenting is a tough job and I realize that as they girls get older their problems will just get bigger. So I want you all to know that you can't stop. Keep doing your thing every day - as hard as it may be. I think I raised the mommy flag three times before Wednesday this week. This was an exhausting week... it couldn't have come at a more needed moment.
I was reminded somewhere in between Columbia and Henry Street that its going to be OK. Today it was better than OK.
For the record... I am tooting your horn too! Toot toot..beep beep. You are awesome today.
Daughter number one is in the front seat telling me about her day...she says that someone (a boy) gave her a compliment.
I said eyebrows raised... "Oh yeah, what did he say?
"He said I have to be the nicest girl in the whole school!?"
"WOW!", I said , "and what did you say to that?"
"I just said, not really...why do you think that? And then He said, 'Because you always hang out with us even when no one thinks we are cool enough'."
I sat there...stunned. eyes, filled with. tears. gripped the steering wheel and wondered what she was going to say next...and then she just said it...
"So, I said to him, DON'T SAY THAT. I THINK YOU ARE COOL."
BOOM there it is... !!!! What? I mean come on that is the good stuff right? She is full of bravery and kindness? It is so good. I always call her my soft hearted one, a little quirky and sharp as a tack. Today I saw her as someone that isn't afraid of what others think- fun- and totally just plain awesome.
I know that in between the yelling matches about good choices, and taking pride in yourself and to be your best self always...something is sinking in.*
So my friends... don't give up. You are doing an amazing job. Keep showing up for those babies and through all the mundane crap that no one tells you about when you get your parenting stripes, there is something beautiful and sweet waiting for us. I think Cinderella was right, all you ever have to have courage and kindness. It goes a long way.
For the record... I am tooting your horn too! Toot toot..beep beep. You are awesome today.
*I will have you know that as I am writing this I am choosing to ignore the 3 alarm tantrum daughter number one is throwing about brushing her sopping wet hair; while daughter number two is taking puppy outside huffing and puffing the whole way. See... all is back to normal in my wonderful, messy and mundane universe. That is what I get for tooting my own horn.